Category Archives: Life

Not Too Fast

Running free
Running wild
Run and run
My little child

Chase the birds
Chase the cats
Chase and chase
Yes, just like that

Hunt for bugs
Hunt for bees
Hunt and hunt
Climb those trees

Swift of foot
Never last
Grow and grow
But not too fast

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Dusk

On Sunday, we spent the early evening chasing the chickens.

We’ve started to let them out in the afternoon so they can run around and catch fresh bugs.

And, so they will stop picking on each other.

When they are free-ranging, they vigorously attack the pumpkin beds, determined to catch each and every evil squash bug.

The task of rounding them up each night can be extremely frustrating, but we’ve made it into a fun family game.

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Watching the boys run and pounce trying to catch the wily birds is both amusing and delightful.

They joyfully jump and dash after the birds…each time coming away empty handed. Ray and I laugh with them and join in the fun.

I’m sure we look ridiculous, running and chasing the birds all over the yard.

Finally, only one hen remained outside the pen, thwarting all of our attempts to catch her.

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She hid in the sunflowers, scurried through the overgrown squash beds and dodged in and out of the swales. But Joe finally caught her with a triumphant “Gotcha!”

Once all were in the coop, the boys helped us move the ladies onto fresh grass. 

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Once on the fresh grass, the hens bounded out and chased grasshoppers and crickets that had been disturbed by the rolling playpen.

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At dusk as a family
We tried to catch each hen
They darted and strut
Away from their pen

We laughed and we romped
All through the grass
The boys had such fun
We caught them at last

Sacrificed

It was around 10 o’clock on a bright and warm Sunday morning.

The sky was cloudless with no rain on the horizon.

The beginning of a perfect day.

But, on the way out to check for eggs, we could tell something was amiss.

There were a few chickens out, running around the pasture. An odd sight since we knew that they had all been in the playpen the night before.

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A feeling of dread seemed to fill the air around the coop.

A few chickens clucked guiltily and turned away in shame as we approached.

An unconcerned, perhaps uncaring four strutted around the pen…seeming to congratulate each other on…something, but what?

The rest warily huddled together in one corner of the pen.

We started the count…only 13. We opened the coop only to find an empty roost and bare laying boxes.

We counted again.

Still 13.

Then we saw it.

A pile of feathers. A former chicken.

With foreboding, we searched for the other errant bird.

There it was, under the coop. A solitary egg rested nearby.

The last egg it would ever lay.

Feeling eyes upon us, we looked back at the bold ones. There they stood, brazenly looking at us as if daring us to question them about the cause of the two deaths.

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It was at that moment that we noticed. The casualties were two of the Nine Blondes. The four birds who so fearlessly stared at us were not just the Old Ones. No, two were the new girls.

Had they joined forces and sacrificed two of their compatriots to form a new alliance? To prove that their loyalties now belonged to the Old Ones?

One look at the huddled group of birds gave us the answer.

The only remaining question? Would peace now reign?

 

Berry Pickin’

Blue skies. Sun shining. Slight breeze. Perfect.

We were outside today picking blackberries and grapes. I never tire of watching the boys pick berries and hearing them shout “found one!” when a ripe berry catches their eye.

It warms my heart to see such joy and pride in their eyes over finding and picking a few ripe berries.

We hadn’t been out for a few days so the blackberry vines were loaded with juicy, ripe fruit.

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Jacob, still not quite clear on how the ripening process works, likes to pick the red ones, hold them up to me and say, “Is this one ready?”

I say no and he throws it aside only to pick another not yet ripe blackberry and ask the same question.

In order to stop this cycle, I point him to the berries that are ready and he picks them saying, “I found one Mommy!”

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For once, we came in with a bowl that was almost full.

And yes, that is the cat’s tail. Boots was ‘helping’ by purring, twining around our legs and rolling around where we were working.

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We found a few ripe grapes over in the vineyard. The boys love to go out here for snacks now that the strawberries are done. Joe, for some reason, eats only the meat of the grape and takes great delight in slurping it out of the skin.

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Since the mint is now starting to flower, I am going to cut a bunch of it and make a kettle of tea. I’ve heard that chocolate mint tea is delicious and soothing right before bedtime.

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Chocolate mint tea
Sounds so very delicious
Or, a mojito

The Predator

The boys and I were chopping weeds in the swale when I heard a gasp from Joe. I thought it was a gasp of fear until I saw his excited little face.

“What is it buddy?”

Without a sound, he pointed to a rather large spider web with 4 or 5 mummified Japanese beetles just waiting to be eaten.

I smiled, happy to see that there was at least one natural predator of these destructive bugs.

I turned my head to continue chopping and dropping and came face to face with a black and yellow beast with 8 black and brown legs.

Now, I don’t want the boys to be scared of spiders, or anything else for that matter. I want to them to have a healthy dose of caution when facing any thing or situation, yes; but I don’t want them to run away screaming in terror.

So normally, I would remain calm and squash my fear, showing them that spiders are nothing to be afraid of–but this thing was seriously two inches from my nose.

So yes, I freaked out.

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Yellow Garden Orb Weaver

After I had calmed down, Joe was looking at me like I was, well, crazy.

He walked over to me and patted me on the shoulder.

“It’s ok Mom. Spiders are good. They eat bugs.”

I smiled and gave him a hug.

“You are right, buddy. You are right.”

Then we went back to chopping and dropping…far away from the web of course.

My fear of spiders
Was put into perspective
By a 4 year old

Flutter By

I’ve seen two monarch butterflies this year. Just two.

I really thought there would be more. We have a whole pasture of milkweed, thistle and wild carrots to entice them…but still, just these two have come to our homestead.

I spotted the first one while out in the swales. It swooped from the grass grown high on the pond to the cherry tree hidden among the tall weeds.

And then it was gone.

Joe found the second one fluttering around the chocolate mint in the vineyard.

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The mint patch we have is three or four times the size it was last year. We haven’t planted mint since our first summer here and every year it grows and spreads.

Joe likes to pick a few leaves and chew on them while we are out checking for grapes and blackberries.

He was so excited when he spotted a monarch gently folding and unfolding its wings in the small mint jungle.

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“Can we catch it?”

I smiled when I looked at his eager and excited face. “Not this one, buddy.”

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A monarch fluttered by
Its paper wings unfurled
It seemed to kiss the sky
Its orange and black wings whirled

So beautiful, so dainty
So fragile and so light
Wings whispering so faintly
Then soaring out of sight

First Major Harvest

Yesterday, the boys and I collected eggs, squash, grapes, peppers and tomatoes…all in a single outing!

Cherry tomatoes were hiding
Nestled among the squash
Eggs and tomatoes for frying
Dark purple grapes to wash

Three little peppers were ready
Of red tomatoes a few
The prince grew small but steady
A beautiful purpley hue

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We also trekked out to the fegde to look for blackberries and aronia berries.

We found a handful of blackberries, which the boys promptly ate. I only got one and that was with some bribery  negotiating.

The boys pulled a bunch of aronia berries. They ate just as many.

I’m not sure how they can stand eating them out of hand. I much prefer them with a bit of orange juice or in a smoothie with a touch of honey. It cuts the bitter and brings out the flavor.

Not the boys. They pop them in their mouth, getting dark purple juice all over their chins.

“Mmmm…these are good Mommy!”

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We came away with a small cluster. The boys wanted to save them for Daddy to “make him feel better”. They are full of antioxidants, vitamin C, fiber and other nutrients and are a powerful cold fighter.

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Clusters of berries
Soldiers to fight severe colds
Nutrients, attack!

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While harvesting, we laughed and smiled
Giddy with the bounty we found
The day was warm, but not too hot
In the sun we twirled ’round and ’round

Autumn Annuals

I look forward to every season, but Autumn is my favorite. The air is crisp, the leaves are crunchy and the humidity is crushed by the cool Autumn breeze.

I also look forward to planning our fall garden. Last year we planted a TON of vegetables without much success.

It was frustrating.

This year, I think we will only plant broccoli, brussel sprouts, cabbage, carrots and garlic.

I’ll probably throw down some beans and lettuce as well, but I’m not going to stress about getting everything in the ground according to “the schedule”.

To prepare for the beds, we are clearing out the brassica area of the kitchen garden. The broccoli left has either gone to seed or been eaten by my little broccoli monsters.

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Joe is enjoying the destruction of the broccoli, cabbage, weeds and borage. He flits from plant to plant, pulling leaves, stems and roots with the abandon and energy only a 4-year-old can muster.

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Around the first week in August we’ll start to direct sow lettuce and beans.

We’ll also start our brassicas – broccoli, brussel sprouts and cabbage – indoors as it is too warm for these cold loving plants.

A few weeks after that, we’ll direct sow carrots and more beans. If it is cool, we’ll start to set our brassica seedlings outside for a few hours a day.

We’ll continue to sow lettuce and spinach every couple of weeks so we’ll have a constant supply.

Finally, when the first frost hits, we’ll plant garlic and shallots all over the place.

Our fall garden wasn’t great last year. I ran out of steam, got lazy and took naps instead of planting.

This year, I’m not going to put too much stress on what we are planting and when we need to plant it.

I’m prepping the beds, throwing down the seeds and letting Mother Nature take over.

She does a pretty good job.

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Prepping the garden
For delicious fall veggies
Cool and crisp and fresh

Perfection

per·fec·tion – the condition, state, or quality of being free or as free as possible from all flaws or defects.

I would never call our garden, gardening or growing conditions perfect.

The squash bugs always attack.

The Japanese beetles always strike.

The aphids always find us.

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Yet, we always manage to–if not overcome–adapt and control these pests.

We always manage to get–if not a surplus–a good harvest.

We always manage to–if not grin wildly–smile in satisfaction over something.

Harvesting bright red tomatoes.

Watching dusky purple borage flowers bloom.

Hearing frogs croak and chickens cluck.

Smelling dill as I sit on the deck drinking a cup of coffee and reading a book.

All near perfect moments.

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But I do know perfection.

see it in the boys’ delight over finding a bug.

In their pride at seeing something they planted growing.

I hear it in their absolute joy at eating broccoli fresh out of the garden.

In their shout of triumph at finally catching that lightning bug.

I feel it in the warmth that embraces my heart.

In the absolute wonder that fills my soul and mists my eyes each time I see them walking, running and playing in the small world we have built for them…for us.

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Oh yes, I do know perfection.

I see it. I hear it. I feel it. 

In small, ordinary moments…every day.

Frog Fiasco

I think we may have murdered a frog.

I found this little guy in the garden while searching for squash bug eggs. Actually, I’d seen about seven of these stuck to our sliding glass door last night.

I picked it up and took it to Joe. He was ecstatic.

“A frog! Thank you, thank you!”

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His excitement lasted until I told him we couldn’t keep it. His little face crumpled as he asked me why.

“Well, frogs have to eat things that move and there are all kinds of pests and bugs in the garden for them to munch on.”

I told him he could play with it for a little while, but then we’d have to release it back into the garden.

He and Jake took turns holding the frog, petting the frog and talking to the frog.

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“Time for lunch boys.”

Joe sadly headed to the garden, dragging his feet the whole way.

Then, he stopped suddenly and spun around.

“I have an idea. Let’s put him in the pond where all his friends are.”

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I was so happy that he stopped pouting that I instantly agreed. Not thinking about whether or not it was that kind of frog.

It wasn’t.

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It moved its little legs with all its might, but only went a few inches in the deep water.

Joe and Jake didn’t seem to notice that something wasn’t right. Jake kept asking me to find one for him too.

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I quickly ushered the boys inside to eat lunch and sat down at the computer to find out what kind of frog it was. Something I should have done before throwing it in the water.

As it turns out, this little guy is, or rather was, tree frog. While tree frogs like to soak and play in water, they are not great swimmers. In other words, they usually stay out of the deep end of the pool so they don’t drown.

Oops.

Poor little tree frog
You never did have a chance
Too much love killed you