Category Archives: Education

Education: Public, Private and Playful

For the past few weeks, we’ve been following a very loose “schedule” inside, outside and all around the homestead.

I’ve spent a lot of time searching for that perfect curriculum, that perfect home school planner and that perfect schedule.

And you know what I discovered? There isn’t one that meets my specific needs or, more accurately, my boys’ specific needs.

I was trying to force an unrealistic and rigid schedule. We were all frustrated.

I’ve done it before. I’ve blogged about it before. And,g just like before, I’ve lost sight of how we work as a family.

So. I came across a list of objectives  by age and created my own schedule using said list.

On Sunday night, I sit with the list and pull activities from Pinterest or just come up with my own. I base all of this on what I know the boys are interested in.

I print worksheets and templates and organize them in file folders so that everything I have planned is ready to go.

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We’ve spent mornings work booking, experimenting and playing games.

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Sight Word Candyland

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Tracing numbers

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Completing patterns: AB, ABA, AAB

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Sink or Float: Hypothesis and Result

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Sorting by color

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Matching lowercase and uppercase letters

We’ve spent afternoons adventuring to museums, playing at the gym, learning the proper grip when playing golf, learning how to swim and somersaulting at gymnastics.

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Golf lessons

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Open Gym

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We’ve read books, done chores, started seeds and practiced patience (sort of).

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That said, I don’t sweat, freak out or break down if we get off schedule.

Sometimes, PE is in the morning while I’m working out at the gym.

Sometimes, we spend most of our day at a museum, zoo, nature center or store because the boys asked a question about how stuff works, what does a zebra eat, what can I buy with a dollar and so on.

Sometimes we play games, build forts, play house or pretend we’re superheros because the boys just have too many wiggles to sit and workbook.

Even though we’re not keeping to our schedule exactly, I feel more organized and less stressed for having it as a checklist of sorts.

I don’t worry about curriculum. I’ve created my own and for now…that’s ok.

Field trips to the zoo
With my little crew
At home, at work and at play
What will we learn today?

And We’re Off!

The seeds, at least the first shipment, have arrived! I have gone through them all, sorting them by variety, then putting them in the order they should be started.

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This weekend, I’ll run to Kelly Seed and pick up the rest of my materials for starting seeds.

But first…the schedule.

January-February
Spinach
Kale
Brussels sprouts
Peas
Broccoli
Thyme
Sage
Oregano
Cilantro
Lavender

March
Marigolds
Nasturtium
Lettuce (numerous varieties)
Carrots
Celery
Basil
Rosemary
Parsley
Peppers
Okra
Tomatoes
Amaranth

April
Corn
Cucumbers
Peppers
Melons
Squash
Pumpkins
Tomatoes

I’ll start all seeds listed above in jugs, bottles, ice cream tubs…pretty much any recycled container I can get my hands on.

As I mentioned in a previous post, this is a test and I plan to start a few flats inside as well.

Even though there are tons and tons of gardeners in the blogosphere who have great success with this method, there is no guarantee that this gardener will have success.

This gardener is just learning.

I will also direct sow some seeds from the above list as well as others as soon as the ground can easily be worked.

Direct Sow
Squash
Watermelon
Pumpkins
Corn
Carrots
Marigolds
Nasturtium
Lettuce
Amaranth
Onions
Chamomile
Parsley
Shallots
Radishes
Sweet potatoes
Chives

I’m sure my back deck will be a sea of milk jugs. All the new varieties of tomatoes and peppers alone will fill up several jugs.

I can’t wait!

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The schedule is done
The seeds sit on my table
Ready, set…let’s go!

A Trellis for the Squash

I’ve learned a lot over the past three years.

I’ve learned that squash bugs are evil creatures that will destroy squash beds if I don’t remove eggs one, or two times a day.

I’ve learned that Japanese beetles and aphids suck the life out of any green leaf on the property.

I’ve learned that beans, Brussels sprouts and cucumbers refuse to grow for me.

I’ve learned that getting upset and sulking when something doesn’t work out as planned is really, really, really, counterproductive.

But this year will be different because of all the lessons I’ve learned.

And, perhaps the most important lesson is to make real, sometimes drastic, changes based on those lessons.

Starting with the back garden.

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One of the major changes/new approaches I will implement this year is trellising.

Rather than planting the squash so that it runs all over the ground, slithering and choking other plants, I’ll build a trellis.

Squash is, obviously, heavy. Zucchinis and smaller squashes will have no problem with climbing and hanging from a trellis, but heavier fruits like butternut, pumpkins and watermelon will need “hammocks” made from nylons or old t-shirts.

I’m not sure what type of trellis I am going to build, but am leaning toward an A-Frame using either pallets, 2x4s or livestock panels.

There are tens of thousands or pictures and posts in the gardening blogosphere showing the success of this method. It works…at least, it’s worked for others.

Will it work for me? It’s worth a try.

And when (or if) it does?

Take that you squash bugs!
The battle lines have been drawn
Revenge, oh so sweet

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Plant-astic

Today we started seeds
The boys were full of glee
We used a carton kit
Went on a planting spree

Pumpkins, gourds and melons
Flowers, herbs and more
Hands deep in the soil
Dirt spilled on the floor

Smiling as they planted
Choosing seeds to sow
Place them in the sunlight
And wait for them to grow

For Christmas, my mom gave Joe and Jake their own garden kit. Jake’s had white, pink and yellow 4 0’clocks and Joe’s had pumpkins, gourds and squash

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Today, Joe brought me both kits and asked if we could “plant some stuff”. So we sat at the table and I helped them each start their seeds.

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Joe wanted to start watermelon seeds so we swapped out a tickle me for a watermelon.

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When we were done, we set them up on top of our bookshelf to sprout.

Once they sprout, we’ll move them downstairs under the grow light and check them daily. We’ll also track their growth on the charts that came with the kits.

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My favorite thing about this project is how excited both boys are to watch their plants grow. I had almost forgotten that we had the kits until Joe brought them to me and wanted to plant.

Enthusiasm is contagious.

Homestead Goals 2016

We always, always, always set more goals than we possibly have the time and the energy to get to.

And, we always, always always feel that we are failing when we don’t get to all of them. We feel that we let the season slip by without really getting anything done.

Until…the season ends and we look back at all we have done on the homestead, when we see the forest instead of just the trees, we always, always, always feel pride in all that we accomplished.

I’m sure that this year, even though I will try not to, I will feel discouraged when I don’t get everything on my list done or even started. But I’m confident that when we look back in the Fall…I will once again feel proud of our progress.

This years goals:

  • Get the carrots in the ground earlier so that we actually have more than a few to harvest.
  • Make sure to plan for pests like slugs, cabbage worms, Japanese Beetles and squash bugs so that they don’t get away from me and take over.
  • Really take the time to fertilize with natural and organic materials. I’ve already started by scattering calcium-rich powdered egg shells.
  • Pull and/or transplant volunteer tomatoes, borage, dill and squash so that the kitchen garden doesn’t turn into a jungle of tomatoes, dill, borage and squash…even though the boys loved it.
  • Rework the vineyard so that, when we get kiwi, we will have a strong enough system to support the weight. I’m thinking cattle panels or something similar. The kiwi at full production will be too heavy for the gauge of wire we are currently using.
  • Get brussel sprouts grow. I’m not sure why I’m having such a problem getting them to even sprout.
  • Keep those dreaded deer away from my fedge, my vineyard and my trees in the swale. By any means possible.
  • Learn more about pruning trees.
  • Grow a medicinal herb garden.

But first, I have to get my schedule going, order materials and start my seeds.

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Ready, set…go!

Let the fun begin
Order the seeds and supplies
Time to get started

Here’s Why

I read a great article today from Feelslikehomeblog.com.

The article was about an online charter school called Cyber School. About halfway through the post, the blogger listed her family’s reasons for homeschooling.

One of their reasons, perhaps their main reason, lined up perfectly with ours.

“There is no doubt that instruction in a class of one or two is far superior to instruction in a class of 24 (or more!)…”

This is a HUGE reason we have decided to take this journey. By teaching the boys at home, we are able to tailor to their educational needs.

If a method of learning works for Joe but not for Jake, we can try another. They don’t have to follow the same curriculum, learn in the same way or even use the same subject matter to learn a concept.

This is not a reflection of the teachers in public school. There are wonderful teachers in that sphere. I know this. I had many.

But with the standards to be met, the guidelines to follow and the test scores to achieve, there is just not enough time in the day for 1 teacher to be able to focus their sole attention on 1 student.

Sure, there are advanced placement classes and there are classes for tutoring those students who need extra help; but eventually those students are thrown back into the mix and left to fend for themselves.

We have that ability, the time and the luxury to make sure the boys get an education specific to their needs.

Maybe our boys would do well in public school. Maybe there is a charter or private school that would be perfect for their learning style. Maybe…

But learning styles change, interests change and abilities change with each year that passes.

We’ve worked hard and are blessed to be able to focus on their specific educational needs.

Why not take advantage while we can?

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13 in 16: Skills and Goals for the New Year

In 2015, we had a rather aggressive list of skills and goals to accomplish. Although we made great progress, this year’s list will look much like last year’s but revamped with more extensive and detailed intentions.

1. Writing
I took, what I perceived to be, many risks with my journey to publishing. By risks I mean scary jumps into a world where rejection is not only possible, but highly likely.

I’ve decided to focus my efforts on writing a chapter book/story book starring the mice from my Adventures in Homesteading series.

I’ve laid out the “chapters” and started revising and submitting for feedback in my writer’s critique group and I’ve joined the Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI)…finally.

This year, I am going to clean and tighten up my manuscript and submit it to agents and/or editors for feedback.

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2. Seed Saving
Beyond saving amaranth and cilantro seeds, we made absolutely no progress on this goal.

That is three years of setting this goal and doing nothing about it.

Maybe with the extra day this year, we’ll move forward.

3. Concealed Carry
Another goal we have not tackled. We found a range near us that offers the class, but I want to get some range time in and get comfortable holding, handling and shooting my gun.

4. Essential Oils
I’ve been using essential oils on a weekly basis and as remedies for many common ailments…sore throat, cold, mood and anxiety.

There are a few classes offered in the area where I plan to learn more and use them even more and on a daily basis.

5. Back to “prepping”
We started to get back to prepping but sticking to it is almost like making that New Year’s resolution to “get fit and stay fit”.

It lasts for about six weeks and then the excuses start.

“I’ll start again on Monday.”

“Ok, after Valentine’s Day I’m really going to do it.”

We did get better at storing food and water. Not so much on home defense.

Our biggest progress on this goal? We added to our 72 hour kits. We took a day and, as a family, reviewed what we had in our bags and added what was missing. It’s still not perfect, but at least we did something.

6. Curriculum Planning
This is the one goal that I feel REALLY good about. The boys and I have a routine that often gets disrupted…and that’s ok.

That’s the beauty of teaching them outside the school system. We don’t have to make up days or ram through the rest of that ‘material’ in order to stay on track. Our goals are loose and our schedule is flexible.

Breakfast, playtime, work booking, playtime, lunch, playtime, field trip or fun activity, playtime.

They get plenty of play and they learn, learn and learn some more.

Sometimes we don’t see what they’ve learned until a day, a week, a month later, but it is so gratifying when I hear them apply something they learned to real life.

“Heel, toe, heel, toe…that’s a pattern!”

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7. Meal Planning for Paleo/Primal/Healthy Meals
This is a skill and takes a great deal of organization to plan for, shop for and and stay on track with both the planning and cooking of healthy meals.

It’s so easy to buy the pre-cooked, processed box of potatoes rather than take the time to prepare fresh.

By the same token, it’s so easy to log on to Pinterest and search for sites where the planning and prepping guide has already been laid out in simple steps.

8. Stocks and Investing
We took the steps and invested the money. We are diversified…stocks, cash, silver, bitcoin, etc..

We’ve used our bitcoin to buy a laptop, a tablet and two bookshelves. More and more sites are accepting bitcoin and payment including dell.com, overstock.com and the list goes on.

9. Fitness
I joined a fitness club and have been taking classes 2-3 times a week. I feel really good about this and my balance and strength have improved…drastically.

So far, I’ve been focusing mainly on muscle toning and not so much on cardio. I’m going to rotate in cardio classes so that I’m doing weights and toning 2 times a week and cardio two times a week.

Learning the correct and safe way to lift weights intimidates me just a little bit, but I have learned that a balance between cardio and weights is the best way to get fit.

10. Blogging
I have 268 followers now. 268! While I haven’t changed the design of the site, I have revamped it by adding category buttons to make it easier for visitors to navigate to what interests them.

This year I’ll continue watching 5 Minutes with Jack and seeking out how to turn my blog into a business.

11. Tree Care
We have planted many trees over the past two years, but done little to make sure they thrive and grow.

Well…they’ve grown, but I’m not sure they’ve really thrived.

This year, our plan is to learn more about propagating and pruning trees to ensure maximum growth and production. And, if we are feeling ambitious, we might try grafting.

12. Propagation
Our only try at propagating perenials last year was cutting off a blackberry branch, dipping it rooting hormone and sticking it in the vineyard.

That’s it. That’s all we did. But it worked!

We are going to try several methods of propagation this year including using root cuttings, leaf cuttings, stem cuttings, rooting hormone and layering.

13. Brewing
We know how to brew and we know how to make wine…but I don’t remember the last time we’ve actually done either. We’ll be focusing on getting our kegs full and learning more about making meads and cysers from fresh fruit.

Not so many skills
But goals to drive us forward
Start the year off right

School Days

Yesterday, I organized our homeschool supplies and found a set of workbooks that I had bought at a garage sale a few years ago.

They are dated, but still relevant.

Each book has a theme and focuses on developing different skills. The activities are simple, quick and engaging.

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Today, the boys did book work for about 30 minutes. We did this in the morning because that is when they are at their freshest.

In that 30 minutes, we colored.

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We cut.

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We counted.

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We learned about addition, shapes, colors and bears.

Yes, bears.

Both boys have their own book.

Jake is working from the “All About Me” book and Joe is working from the “Animal Families” book.

The first page of each book was a coloring sheet.

Joe’s page was a bear with cubs. Before he started to color, we talked about the picture and we talked about bears.

What kind of bears are there? What color is their fur?

What do bears eat? How much do they weigh? How long do they live? What was the bear in the picture doing?

Then, we played the “Bears on a Log” addition game included in the workbook.

We played this game until Joe’s attention started to reach its limit and the silliness started to show.

As I put the workbooks up, I heard Joe talking to Jake about his picture.

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“That’s good, Jake.”

“Thank you, Joe.”

“You can stay in the lines like mine next time. Like this.”

Then Joe showed his picture to Jake. It wasn’t completely colored in, but Joe was so proud that he’d managed to stay in the lines.

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He was encouraging Jake to keep up the good work.

After I packed everything up, we all got in the van and headed to the Wildlife Prairie Park to see a few bears.

The whole time we were there, Joe led Jake. He pointed out the animals, telling Jake what they were.

He showed him the “correct” way to carry a stick. (I didn’t know there was a wrong way.)

“Look at this Jake! It’s a seed!”

“Over here Jake, it’s a goat!”

“Look Jake, a garden!”

I thought it was cute how excited he was and how his excitement rubbed off on Jake. Then, I realized what was happening.

My 5-year-old was teaching my 3-year-old.

Pretty cool.

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STOP Freaking Out!

School is starting again.

Friends have been posting their first-day-of-school pictures and sharing their excitement, trepidation and joy at seeing their little ones off to preschool, kindergarten, first grade or their oldest off to tackle high school.

Yet here I sit, still deciding on what curriculum to use for Joe’s first day of ‘pre-school-at-home’.

Here I sit, worried that I’m already late getting started.

Here I sit, still waffling, still-despite all my research-making no progress in picking that perfect curriculum that will suit Joe to a ‘T’.

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Here. I. Sit.

Then, I realized and remembered that the plan doesn’t have to be perfect.

School doesn’t have to start on a certain day for us.

We don’t have to do the same things as everyone else.

“Comparison is the death of contentment.”   John Powell

That doesn’t mean we get to be lazy. It doesn’t mean we get to take shortcuts. It doesn’t mean we get to do whatever we want…not really at least.

We–I have to–be organized.

I have to stop freaking out when the boys are not doing the same thing that their school friends are doing.

I have to stop wallowing in doubt, stop biting my nails, stop wondering ‘are we doing the right thing?’.

We have to put a plan together and then execute it to the best of our ability.

I’ve met with a few friends who have been in the trenches of homeschooling.

I’ve found a mentor.

I’ve pulled books I had purchased on curriculum from my shelves and started reading all the pins I had saved on homeschooling.

I’ve stopped talking about forming a plan of attack and started laying said plan out, not in my head, on paper.

And, for the most part, I’ve stopped freaking out.

(Or at least I’ve tried to.)

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Tense shoulders and neck
Freaking out about homeschool
Stop! Go with your gut

Bloggy McBlogs-alot

Blog post number 603.

In just under 3 years, I’ve written 603 posts on gardening, homesteading, cooking, chickens, bug hunters, mice, writing, homeschooling and a pinch of everything in life.

I’m still learning.

Learning how to write a blog post that will appeal to multiple audiences.

Learning how to take the criticism–both constructive (which really helps me get better) and destructive (which really doesn’t help me. At all.).

Learning how to grow as a writer…as a homesteader…as a human.

I’m having fun.

I’m feeling a sense of accomplishment…a sense of pride at my stick-to-it attitude.

I’m writing!

I had traveled so far away from my original dream. The dream I’ve had since I was a kid. The dream to write.

But, my journey through life has given me fodder for the stories I share.

I’ve wandered back to writing.

I’ve walked back to my dream.

I’m telling my story one post at a time.

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