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Community Supported Agriculture (CSA)

We are participating in a CSA this year. The first time we did this was in Michigan and it was a wonderful, community-building experience. We joined this year even though we will (theoretically) have more than enough produce. Why?

Eventually, down the road…someday, we hope to turn our gardening passion from hobby to business in the form of a CSA. We joined because we would like to learn more about the running of such a business.

We also joined as a way to try new and unique produce and to get ideas of what to add to our garden plan for next year. Additionally, we’d like to expose the boys to new varieties of veggies…expand their palates beyond the usual suspects.

At least at this CSA, there are no GMOs, pesticides, herbicides or synthetic fertilizers used. A big bonus! Plus, we know that it is fresh and picked when ripe. No underripe tomatoes for us.

We’ll pick up our share weekly for 26 weeks and have fresh produce for our meals plus more to share with family, friends and neighbors.

It took me awhile to willingly try new veggies…I like my old standbys: salad, carrots, broccoli, cucumbers and beans. Now, I’m looking forward to and excited about trying rare varieties of tomatoes, squash, lettuce and veggies I’ve never heard of before.

 

The Socialization Myth: Why It No Longer Applies

There is a common concern whenever homeschooling is mentioned. A look, a cringe and the question: what about socialization?

I’ll admit. I have a couple of reactions to this concern. My back goes up right along with my defenses or I start to wonder “oh no, are we making the right decision?” I get so flustered and then say the only thing that comes to my mind, “Oh, we’ll have playdates”, or worse, “Oh, we’re still just considering homeschooling.” Yeesh.

Later, I’m kicking myself for letting my emotions get the best of me and rolling my eyes at the response I gave. People aren’t usually asking as a criticism, they are genuinely wondering how my kids will ever be socialized if they don’t attend school.

I realized something after attending the APACHE conference this past weekend: I don’t know what people really mean when they ask this question and, I don’t think most of the people who ask it know what they mean either.

I think we have been conditioned as a society to view homeschooling as something weird. I don’t really know where it comes from. I knew plenty of weird, socially awkward kids in the public school I went to. I was one of them.

I often felt uncomfortable, frustrated and unable to understand others or communicate my thoughts and ideas with a group…I was almost painfully shy. It really wasn’t until I got out into the workforce that I truly learned these skills.

Isn’t that what being a teenager is? Isn’t it about learning how to interact with people of different backgrounds? Learning how to function in society…in the ‘real world’?

Then I asked myself: What is the best way to teach these skills to my kids?

Is it sending them to school to sit in rows with 30 other students in their age group and only have 5 minutes between classes, 20 minutes at lunch and a few minutes at the bus stop to ‘socialize’?

Or, is it taking them to the store, the park, the zoo, church…any place where people of all ages are and having them ask questions, make observations and talk without having to raise their hand?

Children learn by doing, seeing and experiencing. I’m just not convinced that the school does the best job of ‘socializing’ them and preparing them for the ‘real world’.

Homeschooling is gaining ground. More and more families are deciding to pull their kids out of public, even private schools for a variety of reasons…individual care and attention to specific needs of the child, concerns about academic standards, concerns about bullying…the list goes on.

Parks, museums, zoos and even colleges are gearing programs specifically to homeschooling families. Community theater, the local park district and community colleges make everything from sports to performing arts programs available to home schooled kids.

Perhaps the socialization argument once held water…perhaps. But, with the evolution of technology, social media and the internet, the argument has just become a knee-jerk response and it no longer applies.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Walking the Property

This week I’ve been direct sowing seeds in the kitchen garden and the back garden. I’ve marked them with popsicle sticks and orange flags–some that I repurposed from the utility markers JULIE used.

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I’ve also been walking the property, observing the shrubs we planted last year and checking the trees in the swale. We plant more trees in it every day. This week I’ve planted two cherry varieties and a pear.

I was pleasantly surprised to see my aronia already budding. Nothing from the blueberries yet, but I have faith that they will soon show their colors.

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Another surprise…it seems my blackberries, planted last Friday, are getting bigger. Of course, it could be only my imagination; I forgot to take pictures for comparison.

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The crazy winds did not do too much damage to the sea berries. They are still going strong.

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This is the apple tree, grafted with two varieties. I’m happy that it is coming back despite the horrible prune job I did last fall.

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Every day, my roses fill out even more. They bushes are bigger than last year. I cannot believe how much they have grown!

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And the strawberries? More blooms every time I look at them. image

This season is shaping up to be more productive than last year. My starts are doing better, I’ve taken more time planning out each area and we have already put in our swales. When I think about it…I can’t believe how much we have accomplished…and it’s just the beginning.

A Haiku to celebrate what we have accomplished so far…

Beautiful garden
Growing greener every day
Can’t wait til harvest

 

Spring Activities Week 6

Fun in the sun! This week we are spending a whole lot of time outdoors since it is SO nice. We will be planting, finding worms for the chickens and playing. The activities for the week are ALL outdoor themed.

Math Activity
We are going to put the numbers from our alphabet mat to good use by taking them outside. Both boys love playing with these so they will have fun throwing them around and I’ll see if Joe can put them in order and use them for counting. For example, I’ll ask him to answer a “how many” question by showing me the foam number.

Language Activity
Joe pulled out the ping pong alphabet game yesterday and we spent about 30 minutes playing. He has his own way of playing. Instead of putting the letter balls in the matching toilet paper rolls, he ‘bowls’ the rolls over. His aim is really pretty good.

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I think this activity incorporating the book We’re Going on a Bear Hunt sounds like tons of fun. I’ll have to rework it a bit and tailor it to the boys, but they both absolutely love that book so I know it will be a hit. We’ll go on our own little hunt through our swales, the barn and the gardens. Maybe we’ll incorporate the mulch pile.

“Uh oh! Mulch…a big pile of mulch!
We can’t go over it, we can’t go under it
Oh no! We’ve got to go through it!”

Science Activity
Joe was really in to coloring eggs this year. After we were done, he asked about every 5 minutes if they were dry yet so we could ‘crack’ them. Jacob decided that he wanted to see what was inside so he just smashed one in his hands.
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This week we are going to make seed bombs – a small clump full of wildflower seeds that the kids can just chuck into the weeds, garden or wherever they want. We already have the wildflower mix and compost so all we’ll need to get is the clay.

Mix 5 parts clay with 1 part compost and 1 part seeds.  Add a couple of drops of water and knead. Once mixed, roll into a ball, flatten it out and cut into pieces. Roll the smaller pieces into little balls.

I’m going to give them to the kids one at a time because I know that Joe, and Jake too, will just grab a handful and put them all in the same spot.

Bible Study/Craft
The stained glass crosses were a lot of fun. Both boys loved playing with the ripped up tissue paper and they look so pretty on our sliding glass door.
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This week, we’ll be singing bible songs and, as I mentioned, planting seeds. We’ll read The Parable of the Growing Seed, Mark 4:26-29:

Jesus also said, “The Kingdom of God is like a farmer who scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, while he’s asleep or awake, the seed sprouts and grows, but he does not understand how it happens. The earth produces the crops on its own. First a leaf blade pushes through, then the heads of wheat are formed, and finally the grain ripens. And as soon as the grain is ready, the farmer comes and harvests it with a sickle, for the harvest time has come.”

Since I’ve already planted some seeds that are sprouting, we’ll be able to see the ‘first leaf blade’ pushing through.

As summer approaches, more and more of our activities will be spontaneous…and spontaneity leads to the best kind of fun.

Day in the Sun

Good Friday…what a perfect day! Ray, the boys and I spent all day outside planting, playing and soaking up the sun.

My not so little starts also basked in the sun and enjoyed a full day outdoors too. I even let them stay out all night. image

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He was hard at work digging holes for all the trees we need to plant. We have 30 oak, 4 nanking cherry, 4 chestnut, 2 almond, 2 walnut, 4 dwarf cherry, 1 dwarf pear, 3 cherry root, 3 apple root, some willow and dogwood we got from Ray’s grandparents and 3 sugar sweet cherry that we need to plant. That’s right…56+ trees and we still need more.

We managed to get the nanking cherry, cherry root and apple root trees planted.

On Saturday, Ray got some of the oak and the starts we brought from his grandparents planted on Saturday. We got some root tone for the dogwood and willow. The instructions say all you have to do is dip the cut side of a tree in the root tone and stick it in the ground so we’ll see how they do. image

Joe and Jake both helped to break up all the dirt clods in the swales. They were filthy and smiling by the end of the day…we all were. image

I planted jersey knight asparagus in 3 shallow trenches in the back garden. I plan to go out sometime this week and plant some marigolds between the rows as well as some basil. Both are said to be good companions. The marigolds repel pests and the basil helps to make the asparagus more vigorous.

Our chickens also enjoyed the sunshine. They played, flapped and one of them even tried their claw at roosting on the bamboo roost we put in the pen.  wpid-0420141728.jpg

 

By the end of the day we were all tired. Joe fell asleep on the floor after dinner and Jake didn’t even want to read a book before snuggling in his crib. I’m looking forward to many more days like that.

 

To nap, to clean or to plant? That is the question…

Today I had a big decision to make. Both boys went down for a nap…at the same time. I had all but forgotten what that was like. I looked around my house thinking that maybe I should clean. Ha! Clean when both of them are napping? Ludicrous.

My next thought was to take a nap myself. Late nights and early mornings have become routine around here. Then I looked outside. How could I sleep when it was so beautiful and I have a gajillion trees and bushes to plant?

I can plant and dig when the boys are awake but it takes a lot longer. They like to help. They like to wander off. They like to step on my newly planted strawberries.

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I patiently (most of the time) let them help me because I know that if I don’t, they will lose interest and not want to help when they are older. I figure if I make it fun for them now…there is a chance that they will enjoy it as they grow. That’s the plan anyway.

Since they were napping, I went outside, put my boots on and played in the dirt.

I started by planting kinnickinnick in the swale. I’m hoping that it will vine out and spread into a beautiful green blanket…just like all the pictures.

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I also walked around the swales a bit. It hasn’t rained in 3 or 4 days but we still have standing water in part of the top swale. Pretty cool since before all the water ran off our property in a day.

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I had my tomato starts out on the deck and since I have been itching to get them in the ground, I decided I’d experiment. I took a black seaman, a ground cherry and an heirloom (variety unknown) and transplanted them to the kitchen garden. We’ll see how they do. Hopefully it doesn’t snow in June.

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Then I went out to the fedge thinking…”I’m not gonna have time to get all these in.” I had 8 bushes to plant: 3 blackberry, 3 autumn olive and 2 seaberry. Not only did I get them all planted, fertilized and mulched…I also dug the holes for the remaining 3 seaberry bushes and 3 blackberry bushes coming from another nursery. Now when they get here all I have to do is fertilize, cover and mulch!

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Of course, I’m not completely done with the fedge. We’ll still need to put cages around the newbies to keep the deer from helping themselves even though we have a whole back pasture full of clover and…but I digress.

I’m feeling like I accomplished quite a bit today. I got some exercise, sun and free therapy.

Next up? Planting trees in the swale.

A Tale of Two Swales

Whirlwind does not even begin to describe the past two days. With a team ranging from novice to expert, we learned a great deal, and now have two gorgeous swales on our property.

Our first team member arrived by 8AM–a 7,500lb excavator with a 36″ bucket.

Ray and I worked with the team from Midwest Permaculture, Bill Wilson and his intern Matt, to mark out the contour lines for the first swale so that Hal, our excavator operator, could start digging.

We used a transit and stadia. Once we finished marking the first swale, we double checked the flags to make sure we were on the money.  A “measure twice, cut once” method.

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Next, it was time for Hal to break ground. We were using a 36″ bucket with no teeth in order to pack the ground down tightly once the earth was removed. It had rained a few days prior so the ground was soft without being soggy and fairly easy to work with.

The plan was to make a 5′ wide, 18″ deep swale with a sloped back end, so it was important for someone to work with Hal to get the depth and angle of the back cut just right.

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It was oddly thrilling watching the excavator tear up our back yard. It was almost like I had a birds eye view of the work. All I could think about was how  beautiful it was going to be 2, 5, 30 years down the road.

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About midday we stopped for lunch and one of our younger team members came out to help operate the excavator.

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Matt, Melissa, Hal and Bill (left to right)

At the start of the day we were looking at a plan to put three swales in. Once we actually started measuring, the number went up to five. We were able to clearly determine the contour lines of two but, with all the irregular dips and dives of our land, the other three seemed to change every time we used the stadia.

Ray, Bill and I were standing together watching the excavator progress. I was feeling overwhelmed by the sheer amount of work that was ahead of us and, as if reading my mind, Bill looked at me and said, “You know, a year in the life of a tree is nothing. You don’t have to do it all right now.”

He was right. Ray and I were so anxious to get the land working for us and to start repairing the landscape that we were ignoring our own little alarm bells, “Danger! Danger! You are taking on too much at one time!”

We were so ready to get started that we were forgetting to stand back and observe the land. We knew when we started that we wanted to put a swale or two in on the NE side of the property because we could see the water pool, collect and flow through it every time it rained, but we really don’t know much about the NW side.

So, we made the decision to wait until we had a chance to observe the NW side before making any concrete plans. We needed to be reminded to practice permaculture which means applying “thoughtful observation” rather than “thoughtless labor” to our design systems.

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Now our first two swales are in and we have our work cut out for us. We plan to cover crop with inoculated dutch white clover and then plant trees, shrubs, etc on the south side of the berm. We have 35 trees coming, but with more than 1000ft of swale…we’re going to need a lot more than that.

In the mean time…we will be anxiously watching the forecast for that next torrential downpour so we can see just how awesome our new water catchment system is.

 

 

Holes

We have big perennial plans this year.

Thinking about all of the plants that will be coming to the house the first week in April was making me hyperventilate a little…so I thought it might help calm me down if I drew each area out to determine just how many holes we’d need to dig.

I mean, I calmed down quite a bit about the kitchen garden once I drew the plans up, so I just knew that I’d chill out once I had drawings for the fedge, vineyard and back garden drawn up.

Ha.

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We’ll need 26 holes for the vineyard to plant the 5 new grape vines, 12 creeping phlox for ground cover, 2 female kiwi replacements, 4 burning bush and 3 snow in summer for ground cover…plus 29 small holes for strawberry plants.

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For the back garden, we’ll be planting 35+ varieties of vegetables as well as sunflowers, amaranth, cover crop and beneficial attracting flowers and herbs and our tuber mound will be packed with yacon, jerusalem artichoke, mashua, sweet potatoes and red potatoes.

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We’ll need about 26 holes in the fedge to fill in with more blueberry bushes and autumn olive as well as blackberry and sea berry bushes.

And that is not even counting the 12 oak, 5 chestnut, 2 almond, 2 walnut, 3 sugar sweet cherry, 4 dwarf cherry, 3 cherry root, 4 nanking cherry, 3 apple root and 1 dwarf pear tree we are going to be planting in the swale and the little “orchard pockets” we are planning (post coming next month).

So no, this exercise did not calm me down, but it did get me excited at the possibilities all of these new varieties have to offer our property, our lives and even more importantly, the lives of our children.

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And, once the snow finally stops and the ground starts to thaw we can get started digging our holes so that when the plants come, we’re as ready as we can be.

A Good Idea

There are times when Ray or I will see something really cool or useful and we’ll say, “Wow, we should do that.” And we have every intention of doing whatever “that” is…someday.

Good ideas go into our notebook, phone or on the “list” and are eventually forgotten about…not necessarily because “life gets in the way”…mostly because we find something else we’d rather be doing or because, well, we’re just plain lazy.

While I was being lazy and just surfing through Pinterest, I found an idea I’d pinned AGES ago on my “Preparedness” board: The Family Binder. A binder containing all of the important documents and information about and for the family. Other names for it are an emergency binder, documentation packet, preparedness binder, etc.

This is something we’ve been saying we need to do for a very long time. I am committing myself to doing it by writing this post because it is important.

If you have or have known anyone who has experienced a tragedy such as a tornado, house fire or even death of a spouse then you will understand just how useful having this binder can be.

Binder Tabs

  • Important numbers: Utilities, poison control, pediatrician, doctor, tow truck, cab service, plumber, HVAC service (A list of these numbers will also go inside the pantry door should we need to find and use them quickly.)
  • Emergency contacts
  • Social Security Numbers/cards
  • Passports
  • Insurance Policies: Vehicle and Home
  • Essential information about each family member with pictures, including pets
  • Financial info with log ins and account numbers
  • Credit card numbers
  • Vehicle registration
  • Will
  • Medical directive
  • Marriage license
  • Birth certificates for all family members
  • Home inventory with pictures
  • Evacuation plan: What will you do? What will your spouse, significant other, children or roommate do in order to get out of the house quickly?

We plan to keep the passports, social security cards and a jump drive with the picture inventory in a zippered pouch that is made to snap into a three ring binder. We also plan to review and update the family binder at least yearly, if not more often.

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We were a little bit leery of putting all of this information together in one spot. What if this binder was found by a criminal-type? That is why we plan to encrypt the account numbers, passwords and such and keep the binder somewhere that it will not be easily found. The encryption will be something only Ray and I know which will significantly lessen the risk of having this information all together.

The home inventory is especially important. We recently had a tornado come through our community. So many people lost their homes and their belongings. A few friends are going through the process of rebuilding their homes and are having to document all of the personal items they lost in order for their homeowner’s insurance company to reimburse them for the things that can be replaced: furniture, electronics, etc. They have said that it is an awful, annoying process to have to go through with everything else they are doing.

Homeowner’s policies differ depending on the company you are with and the coverage you are paying for, so it is a good idea to review your policy with your agent and update it if you think you need more coverage. Having a home inventory with pictures and serial numbers could make this arduous task a lot easier.

Another important item is the evacuation plan. If you need to get out of the house quickly for whatever reason, you need to have tasks for each family member to complete. If everyone has a “job” to do, you will be able to get out of the house efficiently without freaking out too much.

For example, you might get the kids shoes on, your shoes on, grab the bug out bags and get the car loaded up with kiddos, a cooler of water and snacks. If there is time, your spouse or roommate might shut the gas to the house off, grab wallets and purses and get the family binder before locking up. We plan to keep a version of our binder in the vehicle in case there isn’t time to get everything.

Anything can happen: tornadoes, earthquakes, hurricanes, home invasions, fires, etc. While you can’t plan for every type of disaster, you can make the recovery a little less stressful with a family binder.

Little Boy Laughs

As I cleaned up in the kitchen, I heard my boys running around playing in the living room.

Joe: Jacob! Help me! I’m falling in the water!

Then Jake would giggle and run around, tripping over his own feet.

I laughed to myself and started to put more dishes away…pausing a few seconds later to wonder, when did that happen?

When did Joe decide his little brother was a good playmate? For so long it seemed that Joe would never learn to play with his brother what with all the “Mmommy!”, “My toys!” and “No!” cries that were constantly ringing through the house.

But suddenly, Joe is pulling Jake into his imaginary world and asking him to save him from drowning or help him to fix an imaginary tractor, loader or combine.

It’s such a tiny change, but it is also a big one. I know that they will not always get along, but for the first time I am getting a glimpse at what life will be like with the two of them getting along and playing together.

Good times, good laughs and loads of fun are coming our way. All I can hope for is to be able to keep up with their shenanigans and foil their mischievous plans.