Category Archives: Life

Education: Public, Private and Playful

For the past few weeks, we’ve been following a very loose “schedule” inside, outside and all around the homestead.

I’ve spent a lot of time searching for that perfect curriculum, that perfect home school planner and that perfect schedule.

And you know what I discovered? There isn’t one that meets my specific needs or, more accurately, my boys’ specific needs.

I was trying to force an unrealistic and rigid schedule. We were all frustrated.

I’ve done it before. I’ve blogged about it before. And,g just like before, I’ve lost sight of how we work as a family.

So. I came across a list of objectives  by age and created my own schedule using said list.

On Sunday night, I sit with the list and pull activities from Pinterest or just come up with my own. I base all of this on what I know the boys are interested in.

I print worksheets and templates and organize them in file folders so that everything I have planned is ready to go.

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We’ve spent mornings work booking, experimenting and playing games.

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Sight Word Candyland

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Tracing numbers

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Completing patterns: AB, ABA, AAB

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Sink or Float: Hypothesis and Result

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Sorting by color

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Matching lowercase and uppercase letters

We’ve spent afternoons adventuring to museums, playing at the gym, learning the proper grip when playing golf, learning how to swim and somersaulting at gymnastics.

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Golf lessons

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Open Gym

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We’ve read books, done chores, started seeds and practiced patience (sort of).

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That said, I don’t sweat, freak out or break down if we get off schedule.

Sometimes, PE is in the morning while I’m working out at the gym.

Sometimes, we spend most of our day at a museum, zoo, nature center or store because the boys asked a question about how stuff works, what does a zebra eat, what can I buy with a dollar and so on.

Sometimes we play games, build forts, play house or pretend we’re superheros because the boys just have too many wiggles to sit and workbook.

Even though we’re not keeping to our schedule exactly, I feel more organized and less stressed for having it as a checklist of sorts.

I don’t worry about curriculum. I’ve created my own and for now…that’s ok.

Field trips to the zoo
With my little crew
At home, at work and at play
What will we learn today?

Here Chick, Chick, Chick

Chickens.

They are adorable when they’re little and fuzzy with their teeny tiny peeps and tweets.

So docile.

So cute.

So…innocent.

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Then, they grow into beautiful birds.

Their feathers are sleek and shiny and their combs are bright red. They no longer peep and cheep. They cluck and strut.

Beady eyes.

Mean glares.

Calculating minds.

Ok, not really calculating, but they are really mean.

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But…they are also useful.

They give us eggs for a healthy breakfast and meat for our freezer.

They create compost for the gardens and get rid of those pesky garden pests.

And…their antics make great blog posts.

Within the next month, we’ll be getting our new flock. This year, we won’t try to integrate them. Even if our Stars are still laying, we’ll most likely butcher them. The infighting was too stressful for both me and the birds.

The Red Stars we got last season have been great layers. Even in this cold weather we are getting, on average, 6 eggs a day from 7 birds. The Reds were good too, but there is something about the Stars that I like.

Maybe they aren’t so mean or maybe I’m still holding a grudge against the Reds for starting the Chicken Wars.

We’ll do a little research, but right now the plan is to get 15 new Red Stars.

We’ll keep them separate from the current flock, but once they start laying eggs…the 7 remaining hens will go from coop to freezer.

Here little chick, chick
So fluffy, fuzzy and cute
Time to get growing

Wind Damage

The autumn olive saga continues with even more tragedy.

While the winter has not been brutal, we have had a few days of crazy winds and one horribly destructive ice storm.

We lost our only climbing tree.

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I thought that this was the extent of the damage…until I saw the fedge.

Our two surviving autumn olives had been viciously attacked by ice and wind. One was nothing more than a pile of sticks. The other was bent and looks about ready to snap at the base.

Spring and pruning may save them, but I have little hope. We have most likely lost them both.

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The base of the plant is almost ready to snap. We’ll prune and cut away some dead branches in the hope we can save it.

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The other one is beyond hope. It’s a pile of sticks we’ll use for kindling.

I’m crushed. Four years of growth obliterated by an ice storm and raging wind.

We had finally picked fruit from them and now we have to start all over.

And yet…we’ve learned that no matter how much you plan, how much you protect and how much you nurture…sometimes things just don’t work out.

So, rather than wallowing in disappointment and self-pity, you cut out the damage and start all over again armed with the lessons you’ve learned.

After boo-hooing for a few minutes, I mapped out the fedge, took a few notes and ordered two more autumn olives.

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Take that brutal wind!
Take that cold and heartless ice!
The fedge will live on!

Homestead Goals 2016

We always, always, always set more goals than we possibly have the time and the energy to get to.

And, we always, always always feel that we are failing when we don’t get to all of them. We feel that we let the season slip by without really getting anything done.

Until…the season ends and we look back at all we have done on the homestead, when we see the forest instead of just the trees, we always, always, always feel pride in all that we accomplished.

I’m sure that this year, even though I will try not to, I will feel discouraged when I don’t get everything on my list done or even started. But I’m confident that when we look back in the Fall…I will once again feel proud of our progress.

This years goals:

  • Get the carrots in the ground earlier so that we actually have more than a few to harvest.
  • Make sure to plan for pests like slugs, cabbage worms, Japanese Beetles and squash bugs so that they don’t get away from me and take over.
  • Really take the time to fertilize with natural and organic materials. I’ve already started by scattering calcium-rich powdered egg shells.
  • Pull and/or transplant volunteer tomatoes, borage, dill and squash so that the kitchen garden doesn’t turn into a jungle of tomatoes, dill, borage and squash…even though the boys loved it.
  • Rework the vineyard so that, when we get kiwi, we will have a strong enough system to support the weight. I’m thinking cattle panels or something similar. The kiwi at full production will be too heavy for the gauge of wire we are currently using.
  • Get brussel sprouts grow. I’m not sure why I’m having such a problem getting them to even sprout.
  • Keep those dreaded deer away from my fedge, my vineyard and my trees in the swale. By any means possible.
  • Learn more about pruning trees.
  • Grow a medicinal herb garden.

But first, I have to get my schedule going, order materials and start my seeds.

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Ready, set…go!

Let the fun begin
Order the seeds and supplies
Time to get started

13 in 16: Skills and Goals for the New Year

In 2015, we had a rather aggressive list of skills and goals to accomplish. Although we made great progress, this year’s list will look much like last year’s but revamped with more extensive and detailed intentions.

1. Writing
I took, what I perceived to be, many risks with my journey to publishing. By risks I mean scary jumps into a world where rejection is not only possible, but highly likely.

I’ve decided to focus my efforts on writing a chapter book/story book starring the mice from my Adventures in Homesteading series.

I’ve laid out the “chapters” and started revising and submitting for feedback in my writer’s critique group and I’ve joined the Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI)…finally.

This year, I am going to clean and tighten up my manuscript and submit it to agents and/or editors for feedback.

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2. Seed Saving
Beyond saving amaranth and cilantro seeds, we made absolutely no progress on this goal.

That is three years of setting this goal and doing nothing about it.

Maybe with the extra day this year, we’ll move forward.

3. Concealed Carry
Another goal we have not tackled. We found a range near us that offers the class, but I want to get some range time in and get comfortable holding, handling and shooting my gun.

4. Essential Oils
I’ve been using essential oils on a weekly basis and as remedies for many common ailments…sore throat, cold, mood and anxiety.

There are a few classes offered in the area where I plan to learn more and use them even more and on a daily basis.

5. Back to “prepping”
We started to get back to prepping but sticking to it is almost like making that New Year’s resolution to “get fit and stay fit”.

It lasts for about six weeks and then the excuses start.

“I’ll start again on Monday.”

“Ok, after Valentine’s Day I’m really going to do it.”

We did get better at storing food and water. Not so much on home defense.

Our biggest progress on this goal? We added to our 72 hour kits. We took a day and, as a family, reviewed what we had in our bags and added what was missing. It’s still not perfect, but at least we did something.

6. Curriculum Planning
This is the one goal that I feel REALLY good about. The boys and I have a routine that often gets disrupted…and that’s ok.

That’s the beauty of teaching them outside the school system. We don’t have to make up days or ram through the rest of that ‘material’ in order to stay on track. Our goals are loose and our schedule is flexible.

Breakfast, playtime, work booking, playtime, lunch, playtime, field trip or fun activity, playtime.

They get plenty of play and they learn, learn and learn some more.

Sometimes we don’t see what they’ve learned until a day, a week, a month later, but it is so gratifying when I hear them apply something they learned to real life.

“Heel, toe, heel, toe…that’s a pattern!”

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7. Meal Planning for Paleo/Primal/Healthy Meals
This is a skill and takes a great deal of organization to plan for, shop for and and stay on track with both the planning and cooking of healthy meals.

It’s so easy to buy the pre-cooked, processed box of potatoes rather than take the time to prepare fresh.

By the same token, it’s so easy to log on to Pinterest and search for sites where the planning and prepping guide has already been laid out in simple steps.

8. Stocks and Investing
We took the steps and invested the money. We are diversified…stocks, cash, silver, bitcoin, etc..

We’ve used our bitcoin to buy a laptop, a tablet and two bookshelves. More and more sites are accepting bitcoin and payment including dell.com, overstock.com and the list goes on.

9. Fitness
I joined a fitness club and have been taking classes 2-3 times a week. I feel really good about this and my balance and strength have improved…drastically.

So far, I’ve been focusing mainly on muscle toning and not so much on cardio. I’m going to rotate in cardio classes so that I’m doing weights and toning 2 times a week and cardio two times a week.

Learning the correct and safe way to lift weights intimidates me just a little bit, but I have learned that a balance between cardio and weights is the best way to get fit.

10. Blogging
I have 268 followers now. 268! While I haven’t changed the design of the site, I have revamped it by adding category buttons to make it easier for visitors to navigate to what interests them.

This year I’ll continue watching 5 Minutes with Jack and seeking out how to turn my blog into a business.

11. Tree Care
We have planted many trees over the past two years, but done little to make sure they thrive and grow.

Well…they’ve grown, but I’m not sure they’ve really thrived.

This year, our plan is to learn more about propagating and pruning trees to ensure maximum growth and production. And, if we are feeling ambitious, we might try grafting.

12. Propagation
Our only try at propagating perenials last year was cutting off a blackberry branch, dipping it rooting hormone and sticking it in the vineyard.

That’s it. That’s all we did. But it worked!

We are going to try several methods of propagation this year including using root cuttings, leaf cuttings, stem cuttings, rooting hormone and layering.

13. Brewing
We know how to brew and we know how to make wine…but I don’t remember the last time we’ve actually done either. We’ll be focusing on getting our kegs full and learning more about making meads and cysers from fresh fruit.

Not so many skills
But goals to drive us forward
Start the year off right

Scattering Shells

The garden bug is nibbling.

Every day I wake up itching to get started.

Every week I get more seed catalogs in the mail and tear into them plotting and planning the 2016 Garden.

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According the the Farmer’s Almanac, the last frost date for my region is April 20, so I’m feeling the pressure to get my seed starting schedule together. This means I need to plan, pick and start planting if I want to start tomato and pepper seeds by the last week in January.

 

SO MUCH TO DO!

In an effort to calm down and feel like I’m taking action, I discovered a good use for the eggshells we’ve been powdering all winter.

Scatter. Let the chickens do the scratching. Scatter some more.

Why?

Egg shells are made of almost entirely of calcium carbonate. Plants need calcium to thrive. And…it’s free fertilizer. All we have to do is throw the eggshells in a pan, let them dry and pulverize them in the food processor.

It’s that simple.

So, armed with two and a half coffee cans full of powdered eggshells and a couple of colanders, the boys and I took turns scattering powdered eggshells all over the kitchen garden.

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The chickens have been happily preparing the kitchen garden for a month or so now. They scratch, eat the eggs of those pesky garden pests and fertilize the soil with their waste.

Now, they’ll help even more by scratching the calcium rich egg shells into the soil.

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We ended up covering the entire kitchen garden with powdered shells. As the chickens move across the garden they will help scratch and dig and mix the powder in to the soil.

Scattering egg shells
Gardening in the winter
Preparing the soil

Blissfully Unaware

The snow fall a few days ago caught us a bit off guard. We knew it was coming of course, but we weren’t fully prepared.

Our van is still blissfully unaware that it is winter.

We have a case of water that is now frozen, and bug-out-bags that are fully tricked out for warm weather. The clothes in Joe and Jake’s bags are summer clothes and a size or two too small.

I have short-sleeved shirts and shorts.

What is a bug-out-bag or, BOB? Basically a lifesaver, especially when an absent-minded mommy forgets to bring an essential (or non-essential but comforting) item along on a short or long car trip.

You may also have heard of a 72-hour bag or an “Oops” bag, Go-bag or Grab bag.

I made one for my friend and gave it to her as a baby shower present with diapers, wipes, baby Tylenol and benadryl, toys, onesies, socks, diaper rash cream and a few other odds and ends including chocolate, Tylenol and chapstick for Mommy. I called it her “Oh crap!” bag.

I use a backpack with many pockets, but any bag will do. I had the boys pick out their own backpacks and made it fun for them to pick toys, clothes and other items for theirs.

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It has been a huge benefit for me on more than one occasion.

Once I forgot to pack clothes for the boys.

Once or twice I forgot to pack my prescription-Careless once again.

Once I ran out of diapers and I needed one quickly…VERY quickly.

I’ve listed out the details in a previous post, but here is a refresher.

The What – Essentials for a Basic BOB
Food (jerky, nuts, pull-tab soups, granola bars) and water bottle (3 days worth)
Water
First Aid Kit – at least basic
Lighter(s)
Pocket knife or scissors
Emergency candles/flairs
Season appropriate clothing, 3 days worth
Toiletries – toothbrush/toothpaste, bar soap, wash cloth, towel, travel shampoo
Maps and travel information – your phone may have GPS but you never know if it will work so it is good to have a paper map too.
Phone chargers
Blanket(s)
Prescription medicine-one week’s worth. I keep a S-S pill box with my anti-seizure medicine. It has come in handy on more than one occasion just for overnight trips when I’ve forgotten my primary pill box.
Over-the-counter meds for headaches, allergies, etc.
Flashlights and extra batteries
Rope – Para-cord or similar. I have a para-cord bracelet I stuck in mine. It is amazing how much rope those things have.
Pen and paper
Garbage bags, the big contractor size

The What – Non-Essential but nice to have
Entertainment: Books, crosswords, wordsearch, travel dvd player, toys
Crayons/coloring books
Snacks
Bug spray for summer
Hot hands for winter

This seems like a lot.

It is…and it isn’t.

Using plastic ziploc bags and vacuum seal bags you can fit a lot in a packpack. They don’t take up a ton of room, especially for one or two people.

I don’t have all of this in my bug out bags. I do have is clothes, beef jerky, nuts, water, cups, toys, flashlights, emergency candles, my para-cord, toothbrush and a few toys and books for both me and the boys and medicine.

I need to beef them up to include at least the essentials listed above, but I at least have a start, which is better than nothing at all.

As I said in my previous post, it is practical to have one of these in your vehicle.

You never know when you will get a flat tire or have the engine in your car act up and leave you stranded until help can come.

You never know when you will go to see Grandma, just for the day, and not be able to go home because the weather turns nasty and you are stuck without clothes and your prescription.

Could you buy this stuff? Probably…but why when a small bag in your car could hold everything you need?

 

 

The Aftermath

The day after we culled our 6 older hens we found 6 eggs.

The next day we found 6.

On the third and fourth day we found 6.

With all 13 hens, we’d only been getting 5-6 a day so I guess we picked the right birds to butcher.

I had expected to see a decrease in egg production–at least for a few days. The trauma of  losing 6 hens, I thought, would affect the remaining 7 ladies.

They aren’t feeling too depressed.

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There has been no sign of pecking or fighting since “that day”. They are quieter, calmer and less stressed.

They appear to be almost…relieved.

Relieved that the bullies are gone.

Relieved that the war is truly over.

Relieved that the enemy…has been vanquished.

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Now, winter is upon us.
Snow will fall tonight.
Will the hens keep laying?
Are there eggs in sight?

Time will give the answer.
Time will let us know.
Are chickens over winter
Worth trudging through the snow?

The Culling

I’ve written many stories about the hens in my life. Most, almost all…ok EVERY story has been exaggerated in some small or jumbo way.

So here are a few facts.

I have chickens and they lay eggs for my family. True.

My chickens can talk and think rationally. False.

I have lost chickens to predators. True.

My chickens are evil. False.

I have been pecked and chased by The Bully. True.

I dislike my chickens. False.

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We are grateful for these birds. The eggs they provide are a much healthier alternative to store-bought eggs. We not only know where the eggs come from, but we know what went into them.

My boys love chasing them, feeding them and naming them. The hens are a part of their childhood and something they will, I hope, always remember fondly.

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So even though I joke about their demise. Even though I actually did threaten them with the freezer when they wouldn’t lay eggs. Even though…I like them for what they are and for their purpose: to provide food for our family.

That is the reason we got them. They aren’t pets, they aren’t members of our family. They are food.

We feed them. We water them. We keep them safe from predators. We (try) to keep them from harm.

We did our best to take good care of them. But we knew that one day, just like we fed them, they will feed us.

And for that, we are grateful.

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Today we culled six hens
With respect and no puns
They roamed out of their pen
Strutting in the sun

Look Up, Look Down, Look All Around

We went to a class at the nature center last week to learn about “who lives in a tree”.

We went outside at the beginning and observed trees, looking for nests and talking about the different animals, insects and birds that make their homes in trees.

Then, the teacher had the kids go on a scavenger hunt for rubber bugs she had hidden in and around the trees in a small clearing.

“Look up, look down, look all around,” she chanted as the kids ran from tree to tree searching for these treasures and hoping to be the first to find them all.

Cute.

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Joe and Jake loved this hunt so much that I adapted it for a sight word lesson.

The boys are big time sticker fans, so I grabbed a few packages of superhero stickers: Ninja Turtles, Spiderman and Captain America. I hid them around the yard with a sight word card under each sticker.

“Look up, look down, look all around.”

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There were 24 cards and I hid 6 at a time. I didn’t want to overwhelm them and make them lose interest too soon.

We ended up playing 4 rounds. They couldn’t get enough of the game!

“Look up, look down, look all around.”

I asked Joe what the sight word was and when he told me, or at least tried to sound it out, he got to keep the sticker.

Jake got to keep his sticker if he asked Joe to tell him what the sight word was and repeated it back.

“Look up, look down, look all around.”

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After we’d gone through all the sight words, I gave the boys a blank sheet of paper so they could stick their superheroes on…at least the ones they hadn’t stuck to their shirt, pants and coat.

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The words Joe didn’t know on sight, he was able to sound out. I think it held his interest for three reasons.

  1. He likes a good scavenger hunt.
  2. He loves stickers.
  3. He discovered that  enjoys ‘teaching’ his little brother.

When Jake brought him a card and he was able to tell him the word, I could see the pride in his eyes at being able to ‘teach’ Jake something new.

I’m sure he saw pride in my eyes too.

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Look up and look down
And look all around
Find all of the words
Repeat what you heard